Parents are under the delusion that if they managed to commit to forced-arranged relationships, maybe our kids will too. You hear it countless times, "We also did it. I did not even see your mother or father until the day of the wedding and look at us now."
What is the first relationship Allah created ? Was it Mother and Son? Mother and Father ? Son and Daughter ? No. It was Man and Wife, through which you become Mother and Father, through which your sons and daughters are born. This marital bond has b...
Girls are ingrained to take care of their homes and children. Whether there are in laws or not. Having in laws does not guarantee that a daughter in law will only then , under their supervision and training will become a good wife and a home maker. T...
In my perspective. We don't say this enough. We need to reiterate ourselves all the time especially when it comes to the basic stuff. I call it A.S.A.P- Awareness, Safety, Assurance, and Protection. As a parent myself, I understand ...
Feminism and Male Chauvinism are terms that are used very loosely. The slightest words, ideologies and mannerisms are taken out of context. It all boils down to our need to belong to movements without any knowledge of what they mean. People make the worst kind of inferences when they are ill-informed, even though there is a... Continue Reading →
We live in a society that teaches "Don't get raped" instead of "Don't rape". Rape culture escalates when society keeps loosening its acceptance standards. Granted, progression is a must but does modernity mean adopting only questionable values? There is evolvement, and then there is change. The former means a gradual development and the latter means... Continue Reading →
Peace Be Upon You Readers, Sex is such a taboo subject in our homes and society whereas in the Quran it is openly discussed. The do's and don'ts have been explained, and the religious implications are all there in black and white. When there is no communication gap between God and us, then why the... Continue Reading →
The death that prompted country wide protests has finally found justice for Zainab. Twenty four year old, Imran was arrested and confessed his crime along with seven other child killings. For once the government lived up to its promise and delivered it under two weeks. He was Zainab's neighbour who was known and trusted... Continue Reading →
In my previous post, I tried to raise some questions about the dilemma we face concerning rape and increasing sexual assaults in our society . Now it's time to explore why it's happening. To solve any problem, we must unfold the mystery of what happens at the grass root level. We need to uncover why men behave... Continue Reading →