Parents are under the delusion that if they managed to commit to forced-arranged relationships, maybe our kids will too. You hear it countless times, "We also did it. I did not even see your mother or father until the day of the wedding and look at us now."
No, I am not trying to convert you, but I am here to address an issue that happens a lot in the West, and that is, people falling in so-called love only to bring up religion in the end. It becomes the deciding factor in the relationship and a deal breaker for many. Love takes a hit, and everything is poof! Sayonara.
This is the second part Marriage meddlers. Marriage is susceptible and sensitive to outside influences. This posts shed light on such repercussions. Hope you like it !
What is the first relationship Allah created ? Was it Mother and Son? Mother and Father ? Son and Daughter ? No. It was Man and Wife, through which you become Mother and Father, through which your sons and daughters are born. This marital bond has b...
Girls are ingrained to take care of their homes and children. Whether there are in laws or not. Having in laws does not guarantee that a daughter in law will only then , under their supervision and training will become a good wife and a home maker. T...
In my perspective. We don't say this enough. We need to reiterate ourselves all the time especially when it comes to the basic stuff. I call it A.S.A.P- Awareness, Safety, Assurance, and Protection. As a parent myself, I understand ...
To trust is good but the same trust can make us vulnerable to dangers. Child sexual abuse had always been lurking in our society. We have always known about it or heard it from some source, but we also brush past the uncomfortable subject believing the It's-never-going-to-happen-to-us fallacy. Now, thankfully, child sexual abuse is coming... Continue Reading →
Feminism and Male Chauvinism are terms that are used very loosely. The slightest words, ideologies and mannerisms are taken out of context. It all boils down to our need to belong to movements without any knowledge of what they mean. People make the worst kind of inferences when they are ill-informed, even though there is a... Continue Reading →
We live in a society that teaches "Don't get raped" instead of "Don't rape". Rape culture escalates when society keeps loosening its acceptance standards. Granted, progression is a must but does modernity mean adopting only questionable values? There is evolvement, and then there is change. The former means a gradual development and the latter means... Continue Reading →
Peace Be Upon You Readers, Sex is such a taboo subject in our homes and society whereas in the Quran it is openly discussed. The do's and don'ts have been explained, and the religious implications are all there in black and white. When there is no communication gap between God and us, then why the... Continue Reading →